Monday, January 24, 2011

The HSP Bully

SICKNESS…

Around four weeks ago, when putting a diaper on Lyla for naptime, I noticed a few small red spots on her bum which kind of resembled a cluster of blood blisters. I didn’t think much of it at that moment – the kid has all kinds of marks decorating her never-flawless bod at any given moment just from minor skin irritants, constant rough play and a highly experienced level of clumsiness. At night when I went to put on her bed-time diaper, a few of the spots were nickel-sized and an alarming shade of bright red. I responded as any naturally effective mother would and turned to my friend, The Internet, who told me most likely my daughter had Meningitis and would surely be hospitalized by morning and permanently damaged from all the nasty, horrible things that the disease is capable of. Then I did the next most operative thing, which was to call Grandma, who had seen the spots back when they were trivial and less concerning. Unfortunately, her guess was as god as mine. Fortunately, the day following was Flint’s 2-month check-up and he doc was able to squeeze Lyla in at the same time and take a look at the suspicious marks.

Donning an oversized T-shirt distributed by the nurse, Dr. Dickey investigated Lyla’s booty and said it looked like Henoch-Schonlein Purpura (which at that moment sounded like “Henoijlsjlfj Schjijoiweoiujf Lakjp Popeoipo!”). The symptoms she described sounded relatively inaccurate at the moment, because Lyla had not yet developed any of them other than the rash/lesions. She prescribed nothing and warned there could be some swelling, particularly near her joints, perhaps a fever, possibly abdominal pain, but to make sure to call if at any time there was “copious amount of blood in her urine.” Uhm. I don’t think we’d have swept that one under the rug under any circumstance. Like… ever. Also important to note, severe abdominal pain that does not subside. Again… no broom or carpet.

Getting only superficial information from the doc, we researched it further at home. The net said the disease is a non-contagious infection of the vascular system (vasculitis) and occurs usually following an illness the immune system didn’t fight properly (such as Strep or an Upper Respiratory Infection). It typically runs its course in 4-6 weeks but will recur in 1/3 of patients. There is a chance it could do a number on her kidneys (hence the request to pay attention to her pee and weekly re-checks at the doc office (Lyla really enjoys the part where she pees in the cup.).).

Like some kind of poster child for HSP, Lyla very promptly complained that her “tummies hurts,” developed plenty more hideous spots, swelled up like a leech at a blood bank and even decided to impress us with a slight fever. Since then, we’ve had symptoms come and go and at one point even thought the HSP was on its way out the door. We were met by an exacerbation of symptoms shortly after, hopefully hitting some kind of climax. One Saturday night, poor Lyla’s legs were so swollen, she couldn’t walk. Running my hands down them made her scream. They felt like a topographical map of San Francisco.

Lyla has been a real toughie dealing with this. She’s not bothered by it unless her joints swell up, and even then it’s usually nothing more than an annoyance. And for her toughness I am eternally grateful, because this disease looks just terrible. She already breaks our hearts, but to think of her in any further pain because of it would just turn us all into pathetic mush. We are 4 weeks into it and hopefully reaching the light at the end of the tunnel, and hopefully she’s not one of the three that get to have a second HSP party. While she hasn’t been truly ill due to the HSP, she definitely hasn’t been herself… and we really miss our happy, healthy Lyla.

We’ll be sure to keep you posted on her progress!

(Missing from this post: photos and videos typical of Emily's bloggin' style. I thought I'd spare you the yucky images of purpura and swelling. Cause who needs to see that? (If it's you, feel free to see generic, non-Lyla images of it here!)).

School Days!

After months of searching for a new “school” for Lyla, she has finally been enrolled! I have been looking at schools for her since Brudder was still just a (really big) bun in the oven, having difficulty deciding what was best for her. Part time? Full time? Montessori? Preschool? Daycare? A Mother’s Day Out? I visited over a half-dozen places and scoured the sites of several more. The church across the street from my mom’s house has a Mother’s Day Out type of preschool that seemed ideal. It’s just two days a week AND it’s right across the street from Gia. We were exactly one day away from having Lyla tested for placement at Keller Montessori when we got the call from Compass that they had an opening for Lyla. Thus, we concluded that it would be better for Lyla to go to part-time and get more Mommy-time and enable us to have a little more time to save up. In August, we will probably enroll her in a more “school” type setting, such as a Montessori. She’ll be 3 ½ then and have her few remaining potty issues resolved.

Lyla has had three full school days so far, and she’s really enjoying it. She’s a little confused about where her old friends and teachers are from the ECDC, but it seems playtime in the “Garage” (an open gym-like room with scooter-cars and bikes, etc.) trumps any hesitation she might have toward the unfamiliar. On her very first day, both Daddy and I dropped her off. If she was the slightest bit nervous, we didn't notice. In fact, I had very little time to snap any photos because she ran, yes ran, full speed into the foyer, and we had to chase her down before she got lost in the mix of kids! She used the potty first thing, then settled in beside another little girl for a fine motor table activity. I am so grateful that she made it so easy on us! I love that my girl loves school!

I am trying to take advantage of “school” as much as possible, from finding some time at the gym and doing grocery shopping sans She-Who-Likes-To-Run-Down-Aisles to spending some time in the house getting some cleaning done minus She-Who-Immediately-Undoes-All-That-Is-Clean. And when Flint naps, I have even managed a small amount of “Me-Time,” which has been very refreshing. Another benefit from the girly’s school attendance is that I am further encouraged to structure her days at home. Since it’s really important that she be awake and nourished the mornings of school, we are trying to follow the same-ish schedule as we do on those days. This means early to rise for everyone. But it also means nap, or at least “Quiet Time,” which Lyla has taken to surprisingly well. Which gives Mommy another opportunity to get things done!

As we fall more into our new routine and Lyla has more school experience, we are hoping to start hearing more about her days there, the friends she is making, her interactions with her teachers, and the exciting things she is learning!






Thursday, January 20, 2011

Snow and Swimming in January!

SNOW!

One chilly and dreary Sunday, we were surprised by a light snow shower mid-morning! Lyla was oh-so-excited and ready to play outside immediately, as demonstrated by her half-naked visit to the backyard via the doggy door. Once properly clothed and Mommy armed with her camera, we ventured to the front yard to play in the fat, wet flakes dropping from the sky. All Lyla could recall from her previous snow experience was that it’s edible, however, it wasn’t accumulating quite as well as last year, so I had to pause her to explain that one should not eat snow that is acquired by scraping it off the sidewalk, car, muddy grass or mailbox. This was difficult to accept until I demonstrated how to try to catch snow as it fell. We didn’t last long out in the cold, and soon returned to the warmth of the house with some yummy hot chocolate.

SWIMMING AND SPLASHING!

For Christmas, Shannon and fam got a one-night stay at the Great Wolf Lodge in Grapevine, which included passes to the indoor waterpark for their check-in and check-out dates. We were invited to join in the fun at the waterpark for a little bit, and we took full advantage – even Flint, who went for his first swim ever in the middle of January! Lyla has a blast going down the slide in the kid zone (over and over and over again). She enjoyed wading in the security of only 2 feet of water, but also loved braving the waves in the wave pool. Mommy learned the hard way how very important it is to not take her eyes off the girl for even a fraction of a second. At one point in the wave pool, I exchanged a few words with my sister regarding a near-future concession purchase and when I glanced back at Lyla, well, there was no Lyla. In an almost-panic, I alerted the nearest lifeguard and bolted toward the kiddie slide area to find my girl happily (and Momlessly!) partaking in all the monotonous excitement the little yellow kiddie slide had to offer. Now, why no lifeguards in that area were alarmed at the acute lack-of-adult-with-child is beyond me, however, I managed well enough without their help. Lyla was not a fan of the discipline to follow, in which she took a time-out in a chair with a very clear view of all the fun she was missing and got a very stern talkin’-to regarding staying with Mommy. But apart from the one “incident,” we had a blast! We skedaddled around 8:00pm, starving and exhausted; I was totally shocked Lyla made it home awake.

She has talked about the water park ever since! By this summer, there will be a new waterpark out by Shannon’s house. I have a feeling we’re going to have a very wet summer!





Friday, January 14, 2011

Wrapping up the Holidays...

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Luke and I got a special treat on New Year's Eve. Nonna watched the two bambinos while we went to the Stars game with Mia and Les. We watched the Canucks massacre the Stars from the lovely Dr. Pepper suite, enjoying cold beers, Tex-Mex and cookies. After the disappointing loss, we wandered through Victory (or lack of?) Park to see what the Dallas New Year's party was all about, but ultimately decided to head back to Nonna's to ring in 2011 with our darlings.


January 1st was "Q-Christmas" and we were super surprised to find out only a few days prior that Papa Sam would be able to make it! We headed out to Garland in the afternoon and caught up with all the Quattrochi's for catered dinner, traditional Q-punch (oh-so-yummy!), presents, and a game of "Battle of the Sexes." Lyla had lots of fun freaking her mother out by standing on a chair and leaning over the upstairs half-wall to peer downstairs while the other kids sniped us with Nerf darts. Flint had lots of cuddles from family - some meeting him for the first time.







After some quality party-time, though very much muted compared to years past (due to several cases of "Day-After-New-Years-Eve-Party"), Papa grabbed a ride with us back to our house (which still looked like a North Pole explosion) and slept in Lyla's flowery garden bed, much to her delight (free night in Mommy's bed!).

The following day, the Wises came by and hung out at our place to get in some Papa Sam time. The kids (and a few of the "grown-ups") had some fun with Lyla's present from Aunt Tammy, who very clearly does not have children and doesn't have to clean up kid-made messes. (Thanks, again, Tammy).

On such a lovely day, we couldn't stay couped up indoors for long. Lyla showed her cousins how stellar she is on her new bike, and showed Papa her favorite place in the neighborhood to go with Mommy and Daddy. At the creek, she demonstrated her superb rock selecting and throwing abilities. She and Anthony teamed up with Papa to chuck some super-big stones into the mucky water.


Our time with Papa was soon over, though, as he took the Wise clan to see a movie and then spend the night at Great-Grandma's. Our own Q clan stayed home to recuperate from the weeks of madness we've come to know as "Christmas..."

Saturday, January 1, 2011

In December...


Wow. Wow, wow, wow...

Last year around this time, we had just wrapped up Lyla's second Christmas, in which she delighted in the gift-receiving and post Christmas playtime, but didn't quite "get it." This year, she was reintroduced to Santa Claus and many of the stories that go along with the season, and she was able to participate and enjoy all the hub-bub.

With Flint in tow, now, we weren't able to do quite so many holiday activities as last year, but Luke and I were happy to reduce stress in as many ways as we could. Despite our efforts, however, this holiday was particularly stressful! I think we were both shocked by the overwhelming amount of "stuff" we had to get done! Between shopping, creating, wrapping, attending various "Christmases," visiting friends and family from out of town, designing and sending cards, managing only small amounts of sleep, and occasionally preparing and eating meals, we have been super-pooped!

We started our holiday season off with some photos by the Christmas tree, after decorating it - a process which took only a few days and LOTS of redirecting. Lyla was a big fan of holding Brudder Flint under the tree. Christmas parties started soon afterward with our annual Roommate Christmas at Mac and Kristin's place. Lyla and the kids had a blast with plastic slinkies on their staircase. Who knew those would be so fun!? Once the cousins were off school, we had our annual Cookie-baking Day at Grandma's house. Fortunately, she and Pap had already baked quite a few cookies, so the girls were required only for sugar cookie painting, chocolate chip and peanut-butter cookies. As usual, we ate waaaay too much sugar. While the cookies baked, the kids played their version of football outside in the beautiful 70-degree "winter" weather.

We spent Christmas Eve over at Grandma and PapPap's with Aunt Shannon and family. Lyla was very much overwhelmed by all the happenings and hardly ate a thing all day, causing her overwhelmed-self to completely melt down by nighttime. We saw, quite possibly, the worst and longest bout of upset-Lyla thus far. We figured Santa, however, was too busy to watch, because he still brought all kinds of goodies that night. He brought them very, very late because a certain 2-year old and her baby brother were up very, very late. Very.

We had a lovely Christmas (late) morning, after Mommy fed Flint and started making lots of noise to wake everyone else up. We made arrangements to get to Nonna's house a little later on so we could take our time and enjoy our morning with minimal stress. Lyla did MUCH better working at Quattrochi pace and playing with her presents as she opened them. Among her favorite gifts - her Toy Story figures, Alphie robot and new big-girl bike complete with training wheels and helmet. She had a lot to unwrap that morning, because she had to help Flint (and Maya and Ellie too!). Among Flint's favorites, his fluffy Chewbacca and new bumbo seat. Luke was a big fan of his "sugar lump" present from me:

...and I am so excited to now have some basic photo studio equipment to play with!

We made our way to Nonna's later in the afternoon for more gifting, Christmas dinner and family time. This was a very relaxed evening, especially after the kids opened gifts and began to busy themselves with their new toys. We stayed pretty late, hanging out, watching movies, eating way too much food (again), and playing with our new "toys." Luke and I got Rock Band Pro - going to have some fun with this one. Just as soon as we find some spare time. Ha!

During all this busy-busy-busy, Flint decided to start smiling and cooing up a storm. He hit his 2-month mark and saw Dr. Dickey for his check-up and vaccinations. He weighed in at 16lbs 1oz. - the typical size of an average 5-month old, with his head another two months ahead of the class, being the size of an average 7-month old's. We also received one of the best Christmas gifts of all. Well, sort of. His ear molds fell off on Christmas Day because his sensitive skin could no longer take the adhesive. While we weren't too thrilled by the skin infection present, we were very excited by the results. Both ears have improved their shape, though his left looks awesome. We may still have some ear issues down the road, but for now, we're happy to see our boy without goofy "muffs" on. And he looks surprisingly like his PapPap all of a sudden!

All in all, we had a wonderful holiday. We still have one more Christmas to celebrate - Q Christmas, this afternoon. Looking forward to that, and one more visit with some close friends from out of town. Then, it's safe to say we will be just as glad to be done with Christmas as we were to welcome it. That is, until we have to start the decor clean-up. Ugh!

Here are some clips from our December adventures!









See more photos: December and Watch Flint Grow!

Happy 2011!!!!!!